Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Wild Ass Dudes....

Ok excuse me for being blunt, but dudes in my opinion are beginning to lose their minds. They are becoming more and more wild...quite frankly it worries me, more than that it's bothering me. I felt it was time to approach this subject, because I've been witnessing just how wild or in some cases reckless guys are becoming.

Case in point: 2 weeks ago a really good friend of mine got a call from a guy that she had been talkin to off and on over the last several months. This dude had the audacity to tell her not to show up to a party (at a public place) or there would be problems and he would put her on blast simply, because she decided not to put up with him and his bullshit and dropped him. WILD!!!!!

Case #2: There is a guy I've known for about a year and a half...we talked, hung out, cool dude. Well he stopped talkin to me all together around the beginning of this year. About 3 weeks ago we ran into each other and he tried to play me like I was stupid. Then the other night he calls my girl and is like where is your girl Ashley I need her to bring some Wendy's...whoa! 1) he goes to Uof I and Wendy's is in Idaho, 2) he hits my girl up like she's my keeper, 3) he can't even hit me up (claimin he ain't got the number, but we're friends on myspace?), 4) don't hit me up through my friend 3 weeks later after you tried to play me...PLEASE! To add insult to injury he calls yesterday and I missed the call...no more than 5 minutes later I get a call from my same friend who is like why does ol boy keep hittin me up lookin for you...wow...really! Too much. This dude wants to act like my friend and I don't have anything better to do or that I don't have more respect for myself than to go get him Wendy's....n***a ...PLEASE!

Man and these are just the worst examples as of lately. Guys are off the hook. I mean I know it's the year of the Independent Woman and all, but why must guys find it necessary to act up even more now that many of us have finally found our confidence...scared? intimidated? I don't know, but I need guys to grow up and stop actin like little boys and like ALL women should drop to their knees...

Please ladies watch out...dudes are WILD and they seem to be getting worse.

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